Vicarage House · Day 2

PACE in Real Life

Anonymous

Staff response space

What do young people experience from us?

Open the activity your facilitator names. There is no score and no perfect answer. Pause, notice and respond with what feels closest for you.

No name is collected. Your draft stays on this device until you choose to send it.

Open the first activity
01

Coming back together

How are we arriving today?

Since Day 1, what have you noticed most?

You can return and update the same anonymous response later.

02

Silent playback

What do you see?

Respond to what you notice before the sound is played. There may be more than one reasonable way to experience the interaction.

Without hearing the words, how does this interaction feel?
Who appears more emotionally activated?

You can return and update the same anonymous response later.

03

Acceptance does not mean agreement

What might the young person experience?

Young person: “I hate this place. You lot ruin everything.”
Which response feels most accepting without necessarily agreeing?

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04

Afternoon reset

PACE under pressure

Which part of PACE currently feels hardest when you are under pressure?

You can return and update the same anonymous response later.

05

Closing and evaluation

What are you taking with you?

Use the same scale as Day 1. Choose the number that feels closest today.

1
Not yet confident3
It depends5
Mostly confident
I can notice what is happening inside me when an incident becomes pressured.

1I can notice what is happening inside me when an incident becomes pressured.

I recognise my early warning signs before I move outside my own regulation.

2I recognise my early warning signs before I move outside my own regulation.

I know what helps me recover enough to stay relational under pressure.

3I know what helps me recover enough to stay relational under pressure.

I can remain curious when behaviour feels personal, provocative or rejecting.

4I can remain curious when behaviour feels personal, provocative or rejecting.

I can hold uncertainty without rushing to decide exactly what happened.

5I can hold uncertainty without rushing to decide exactly what happened.

I feel able to act within my role when a situation does not need escalation.

6I feel able to act within my role when a situation does not need escalation.

I can recognise when another view or management support would help.

7I can recognise when another view or management support would help.

I can recognise when something may need a safeguarding or emergency response.

8I can recognise when something may need a safeguarding or emergency response.

I can hold connection and accountability together after harm or damage.

9I can hold connection and accountability together after harm or damage.

I feel able to make a first move towards repair, even when I have also been affected.

10I feel able to make a first move towards repair, even when I have also been affected.

You can return and update the same anonymous response later.

Notice · Understand · Respond · Repair

Vicarage House · PACE in Real Life · Day 2